Amy J Cheney 
Heal the Heart of the Matter
Transformational Life Coaching
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Relationship Commitments

Transformational Life Coaching - Heal the Heart of the Matter
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The Six Co-Commitments of Conscious Loving: 

1. I commit to being close, and I commit to clearing up anything in the way of my doing so. 
Counter commitment: I commit to holding back, and to keeping hidden my barriers to closeness. 

2. I commit to my own complete development as an individual. 
Counter commitment: I hold back from expressing my full development as an individual

3. I commit to the full empowerment of the people around me.
Counter commitment: I commit to holding back those around me (so they won't leave, so they'll need me, because I'm comfortable).

4. I commit to acting from the awareness that I source my reality completely.
Counter commitment: I commit to a lifelong search to find who's to blame for this fix I'm in.

5. I commit to revealing rather than concealing
Counter commitment: I'm here to hide.

6. I commit to having a good time in my close relationships. 
Counter commitment: I commit to suffering, to finding out how much pain I can endure without flinching. 

(c) 1990 Conscious Loving: the Journey to Co-Commitment, Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks


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